How to pin down he is officially the “one” for you!

When it is about matters of the heart, it happens that you get nuggets of advice as to how to crack the code to get ‘Mr.Right’, and many more. Everyone stumbles upon the idea that everything cannot sail smoothly when you are in a relationship and bouts of anxiety and depression got to be in the cards. if you have only seen red flags when treading down the road of your own journey of love, happiness can loom large at the backdrop too when you fatefully or accidentally meet HIM! So check out the signs that tell you, he is finally your MAN!

He is your true keeper even finishing off your plates!

Whether it is the lunch at your place or the official dinner where you have made your presence felt to woo your would-be in laws, your plate get dumped with too many delicacies and you cannot finish off, he steps in as the true keeper and eats up the last bite and crusts too with a big smile on his place.

You do not fight over what music is being played

Whether it is the small tiffs when the earphones are plugged in or changing channels while watching music channels, his taste for music and yours match big time and there are no two ways about it! Yes, this can happen that finding the perfect track for each other will not be a messy affair at all, when your mood for music gels well.

No fights over the lavatory

Whether it is deciding on the decor of the lavatory, the accessories to be kept and used, who would use which soap, hot water or towels or who will first step in the washroom- things never go out of hand and it is an all-smiles affair, then surely it’s  a big sign that yes, you have got that perfect HIM!

Sleeping peacefully  and blissfully is a reality

Whether it is fighting with bed sheets to getting irked at the sound of his snoring, couples often complain that all things rosy under one roof, especially when sleeping together is a far-fetched reality. Well, when you find a guy with no tantrums whatsoever and appreciates your choice and say when it comes to sleep, you are lucky! if you are in a live-in relationship, you can say it better.

You never get ‘bored’ in each other’s company

The word ‘bore’ is one of the poisons that can eat up a healthy relationship. So even after years of courtship if you find the sparks flying all the time, then you have reasons to feel jubilant about! You cannot rely spell out that is the secret behind it , but your partner is making you to feel that liberated self in a well-enclosed relationship that make you smile amidst all the adversities that the present-day relationships are in, it is hat’s off to you and your partner.

Since you have got him, take care so that you can take your relationship  to the next level and  nurture it with care!

6 Reasons Why Dating In Your 50s Beats Dating In your 20s or 30s

Your passions may be seeing no limits in your 20s and 30s, but when it comes to dating, you may have a few good reasons to salute to grand 50s instead. Here are 6 reasons why 50s always score more when it comes to seeking sweet possibilities of better companionship…

You know right from wrong – If your mind has been pre programmed to believe that it only wrinkles that come with age, think again… because wisdom comes with it too! At your 50s, you have been exposed to world enough to understand and identify right from wrong which applies just as much when it comes to picking the right date and determining the worth of spending time with the same.

Your children don’t rule your life – Secondly, this is the phase of your life when your children have flown from the nest and you are not laden with the burden of hatching more eggs. You have done your bit in life, your children are all established on their own two feet and everything that you are responsible for at this very moment is ‘you’ and ‘your individual needs’ that you may have been denying for a long time.

You have less work pressure – 50s is usually not the time when people retire, but this is certainly the phase when work pressure does not rule your existence. Many individuals choose to bid adieu to the usual 9 to 5 grind in their 50s to focus on the adventures they have missed out before. Be it traveling the world or frequenting favorite food joints, you can have just about everything in your cards that is sure to make you more interesting than ever before!

You have your stash – The days of dating in debt don’t haunt in the 50s. For most individuals enlightened with the concept of savings, the personal stash is always there to woo prospective dates better. Presenting an expensive gift or calling your date back to a posh recluse for coffee after date night is always a delightful possibility. Also considering the fact that you may not have any dependents in your 50s, your money is all yours to enjoy as you like it!

You can always hope for the better but are strong to handle the worse – By the time you hit your 50s, you are sure to have established a very strong spine that is capable of handling uncertainties. You are thus, always hopeful for the better and are even happy to enjoy it when good dates come your way. However, you are also very strong in the face of unforeseen incidents that may leave a bad taste later.

Most importantly, you are the best that you can be – 20s and 30s is the time when most people are fraught with self questioning while others are simply glutton for punishment. You care too much about what others would say and shaping yourself in standards that are laid out by others. In your 50s though, you are strong, confident, above and beyond the scope of shallow judgments.

This is the time when you step out of your home as the Kings and Queens of your own making that the world can only look up to in awe and appreciation.

7 Weird Things All Couples Do But Refuse To Admit

Couples are often not always like the inseparable romantic vampire duos that dazzle the screen with star struck beauty. Passionate love scenes happening just about every other minute, divine moments of pure devotion with each wanting to give their lives for the other, all that hotness even while doing the dishes or cleaning snot from children’s noses… just about everything makes us the ordinary judge our real lives on the basis of what is glorified in the reel.

But here is the moment of truth! Here are 7 such everyday madness (not amounting to creepy) that all couples do but choose to remain in denial when asked in open…

They sleep in different blankets – Yes. There are couples in the world who remain cordial with each other for longer when sleeping in separate blankets. An alarming number of couples have agreed to the fact that they can actually sleep in peace without all that pulling and tugging happening in the wee hours of the night!

They stone paper scissor through chores –Each party is responsible for his / her share of chores when it comes to running a house. This however, does not mean that attempts to pass on additional duties to the other do not exist. Yes. If you have been stone paper scissoring your way to unburden yourself from chores, be assured that you are not alone.

F*rt! – When you live with a person day in and day out, you can take it for granted that your flatulence will not make headlines. Irrespective of how hot any couple may be, each is always aware and accepting of the others’ little gaseous escapades. So, if you do hold mini competitions in your very own privacy on whose is louder, be assured that there are many other couples who would love to participate.

They unanimously decide to abstain – Adult lions mates up to about 50 times a day. Chiseled romantic couples in vampire movies / TV serials seem to stand in the second position. But everyday human couples do at times, choose to abstain. Many refuse to admit, but this is a truth that infinite couples after their 5th drink have admitted.

Try each others’ skin care products – Skin creams and body lotions attract the attention of women and men alike. So, don’t be too surprised if your partner suddenly develops a curious yet soft corner for your rose and lavender hand cream using it every night before bedtime, especially when you are not around.

Pass the burden of bills – Today, every individual is responsible for his / her own bills. However, on many occasions, passing it on to the other in the name of love is not very uncommon. This happens more when couples share the same living space. Promises of repaying don’t usually remain in the list of priorities.

Decide on a puppy first – The love for procreation in most couples is remarkably undeniable. However, the desire to start the process of adding members to their little love bubble by making cute quadruped adoptions is wide spread. This is one of the ways in which love only grows, and not many couples deny themselves this piece of unadulterated happiness!

5 Safe Yet Daring Tips To Follow Up After First Date

As many individuals would agree, first dates are never too easy mostly because there is just about everything to worry about. From how you present yourself to the topics you pick for conversation; from your table manners while dining to the art of dropping the lady home… returning home intact on your own two feet can be a mission well accomplished. However, this is not where the troubles end. Right after the first date, the issue of the second date and how to ask for it, surfaces.

In fact, this is where most otherwise overconfident daredevils falter till all hopes seem to dissolve into thin air. However, with these 5 tips, things can get a lot better when it comes to stepping up from the first to the second…

Tell her right after the first date – It takes no Einstein to determine on your behalf whether your first date went well enough to seek a second with the lady you just met. When you know that there is a possibility of something substantial to happen in the near future; the best thing to do would be to tell her right at the end of the first date itself. All you will need is a touch of confidence and show as little desperation as possible. If there is some festive occasion coming up in the next few days, try and pull up the next date around the same.

Get her something that suits her eye color – Please notice her eye color at the first meeting. This works wonders in women. Next, you can casually send her a gem pendant that enhancer her eye color and state, ‘I thought this would suit the color of your eyes….’ While this has resulted in often unbelievable outcomes, you can use your imagination to do something a little different along this line.

Text her something funny and flirty hinting a second date – Texting is not outdated yet and silly sweet nothings can bring a smile on ‘her’ face. Women love just about anything that can brighten up their day a even by notch. How you keep in touch after the first date is very important. So, if you can nail the right text inputs, you are sure to nail the chances of winning a second date as well.

Wait for a response – Carrying on with your efforts even when you have not received any response from your date can signal thorough disinterest of the concerned lady to have a second date with you. If you have expressed your interest on a second date after the first, sent her a casual something and / or have maintained communication without receiving any response, this may be time to stop. However, you must also allow some time for the lady to respond and then continue with your efforts. Going on at a manic level can make the lady question your mental balance.

Don’t go overboard – A little extra sugar can spoil the cake and a little extra effort towards follow up, can break the chances of a second date. The secret lies in understanding how much is too much, and the worst part is… no one can teach you that. Before you make your attempts, ask someone who may have had a few successful dates if your efforts are going overboard and rely on their experience to determine your course of action.

What Not To Ask A Woman While Dating Or, EVER!

Being wise with words goes a very long way to as far as making a lasting impression with the opposite gender is concerned. You may be a man who is ruled by none; you may also be an individual who guards his freedom of expression fiercely, but when it comes to controlling your curiosity while with a woman, it is advisable to allow wisdom and commonsense to rule. Based on infinite devastating experienced faced by infinite men, here are 5 questions you must never ask a woman while dating her, or EVER for that matter…

Are you looking for commitment? Yes. Shockingly annoying are the two words that best describes this question. No individual roams around the planet with commitment up and ready on their sleeves to be given away to anyone expressing interest on them anytime and anywhere. However, to display your discomfort for the word ‘commitment’ at the very onset of the date can ruin all possibilities of winning a second date. The solution lies in not bringing up the topic at all.

Which part of your pretty self is plastic? You may be amused at how pretty ‘pretty’ can get, but this is no reason to be vile enough to question authenticity. Asking which part of the body is plastic or has been recreated is a shameful thing to do and playing the ‘honesty’ card does not work anyhow to justify this side of your curiosity. Admire, appreciate and leave it at that.

How long has it been since you were last intimate? This is yet another sample of a question that should be banned from vocabulary in the very first place. Get this straight and get this clear… unless you are her psychiatrist, you have NO business asking her anything around the matter! In fact, the lady in question may end up thinking that it is you who have been desperately lacking intimacy for ages or may have been having manic levels of it, which has caused you ask that in the very first place. Discussing weather instead can lead to more pleasant experiences.

Do you like taking responsibility for your bills? This statement in itself can cause multiple questions about uncertainties surrounding your own life to surface. Whatever made you ask this question in the first place? Are you of the opinion that women in general are free loaders or are you a little too stingy with your wallet. In either ways your ideologies look flawed and you certainly stand no chance winning any respect from the lady who may have been successfully leading her life on her own paying her own bills and may perhaps be capable enough to support a dozen like you.

What’s your take on having children? People of the dark ages had the mind set of limiting the role of women around everything that had anything to do with children and nothing more. Before getting to these limiting questions, it would be nice to know the ‘person’ who has come all the way to meet you for some good time and not face interrogation. Ask her of her favorite movies and hangouts instead for a better experience.

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